Finally i'm doing it after couple of years of new year resolutions, this year is special as i'm executing it. Let's see how far i can take this and share my philosophy.
The title itself say's that This is uncut philosophy of my life and it has nothing to do with any individual or a person or anyone. Whatever i write here are purely my thoughts and my take on various aspects in life.
Lot of people say i give lot of "gyan" and full of philosophy.So, i thought why not have a collection of my life experiences and how this philosophy actually got into me.
I believe its not by choice that i say philosophical things, it has more to do with how life has changed and with every moment, twist and turns i had in my life. I have learned, seen and grown up.
I was a meticulous planner for everything the same way like corporate's plan out how there company is going to do in next five year. i use to plan my life but i never thought that life is such a bitch, no matter how much you plan, ultimately what is there in your destiny that would happen. Good or bad, it would be individual's perception however i have learned that the more we say it was bad, the worst is not over then. Expecting it and then setting a benchmark for your results would only disappoint you if you have very high expectation. I would say we should be realistic and take things as they fall and be optimistic even if it is bad, worst or end of world for us.
We should plan things who's probability of happening is positive and on higher side. We should plan in small objectives and have larger pictures so that when something doesn't go according to the plan. We can take that shock and move on and accept the changes.
Life never give you second chance and in the first place also you don't have any choice. If anyone asked me who has the last laugh i would say life.
I always think that this thing would happen but that never happen. So, finally i stopped expecting much from life. Lot of people say luck play a major role in once life. What about those people who's luck always deprive them for the getting what they actually deserve. They may be hardworking, working tens of times than those who have luck yet they never get what they want and they keep trying, hoping one day there luck would change and they would get paid off, for all the hard work they have put in. But what is a use of that when you don't they at the right time. I know there would be sense of satisfaction once they get some reward but what's the point in that when you don't get when you needed the most, your dying for that one chance that you thought would change your life or make your life. Be it in love, job, friendship or any relationship on this planet. people say better luck next time. but my question is why on first place they are put on this earth if they have to crib there entire life hoping to get that one chance and keep slogging to make there life. I wonder why we are force to do things when we don't want, why we chase someone when we know the reality is that would never gonna be happen. We think of jobs which we believe would one day gonna make it even though we know that it would be a distinct dream, we do things to impress someone when deep inside we know that it would be complete waste of effort because that individual never gonna appreciate it. We need luck for all this but that's not the end. For some it may be a cakewalk to get things but for those who rise from the ash are the one's who create history and leave their trails for generations to follow.
These are people who show us ray of hope, believe in oneself and take every day as a new day. but that's the beauty of life. It teach us that no matter how worst the situation is we still get up everyday to change our future with hope of new tomorrow, there is opportunity we get everyday to set it right what we have done wrong, the change we could make one day big for our self. So, never lose hope no matter how worst the situation, who knows the next day is yours. On this very Optimistic note signing off..
what a great thought Nitin, my philosophical frnd.. n u knw what life loves to give u surprises so its always better not to expect anything.. live in present.. enjoy ur day.. n yes be optimist..who else can explain it better then u.. :)
ReplyDeletewaaaahhhhh.....!! well said Tintin.... "Expectations lead to disappointments". Njoi lyf as it cmes...ATB 4 ur writing... :) :)
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