Delusion or illusion!!

I always wonder in what world we live in. Is it a delusion or an illusion?

When i say this i mean it because sometime we know the truth and yet we act as if we are unaware of the situation or we just live with a mere assumption that may be it is fabricated and what if it is true. Still we believe as if we know better than the rest of the world just to make sure we live in illusion rather than facing the reality. How much true others to you are more depend on how much you are ready to give leverage to them in your life.

I believe it has more to do with an individual than anyone else. If we can control our-self, our thoughts and master this art of controlling our life. We can make wonders not only to our-self but to others as well. However, its never been an easy thing to do and it would never gonna be. Today most of our thoughts are not generated by us but the others and we take them into our life everyday. We never think of that but that's the reality. Have you ever wonder why do like songs which bring emotions into it, be it happy or sad. Just be an observant and listen to a song you think, you like the most and then just observe that the lyrics of the song touches your soul. why does that happen that's my question in the first place. I believe somewhere you start relating it with you, some incident which you believe perfectly syncs with the situation your facing or faced and that's where you are buying the thought process of others and destroying yours. We human beings love to intimate things and it has become almost a habit we try to reflect it in our daily life. I remember when i use to relate certain songs with my life but one day i gave a thought that when i'm in normal mood and when i start listening to that song it will take me to a state where i don't wish too. SO, it works like this when we are down we try to come out from that with some weird things and i would say the thought was not yours but borrowed from somewhere else. Let me prove my point when your down, heart broken or left alone why do you suddenly start liking sad songs because you start relating that with you and the moment you do that, you already bought the thought of what you have seen on TV channels or in a movie. So, its a situation where you know that its not the right thing to do but to mitigate that pain you try things just to get back to normal life.
which actually never happen because somewhere in your memory the thing remain and in your heart the pain and know as you created a self destruction program for yourself. So, whenever you see a place or listen to a song you have related to you happiness or pain. You actually get into the mode where even you never thought off.

We can come out from this illusion if we stop being in delusion and face the reality of life and understand if its not meant for us then let it go. Until unless we don't create a life for us we would never gonna get the life we want. Most of the things in life are done or created because of our own thought process. So, stop buying others and start nurturing yours to create a meaningful life for yourself.

Chase your dream but not others.If we believe that we can do good with us and stop being driven by emotions and leave the things that make you sad. your not only helping yourself but to others. They say "garbage in and garbage out" which means if your thinking is wrong how could your output be!! Think about it.