All we want is being loved!!

We humans are so passion driven and we love if we get pampered by someone. I don't understand the logic behind love and your entire life right from your childhood you have been loved by your grandmother, grandfather, mother, father, sister, brother, cousins, friends, uncles, aunties and many other people. Still, we are not satisfied and we need that one person to say finally i'm in love. one question i keep asking many people how does it feel in being love and they say its amazing. You should also fall in love at least once. I know it would be good thing or great thing but what about the one's who are fallen apart. I'm not going to much what love is and how does it happen.
To be honest i have never understand the concept of love at first sight. I believe its very filmy and still i wonder, where and what is that instinct that tells you this is the one. It is like some adjustment bureau guy is sitting next to you to make it happen for you or some angels from heaven came down on earth to whispered in your ears that boss this is your soul mate. From where does that feeling come to you and tells you that your in love with his/her is still a mystery for me. But i know one thing the probability of getting that love at first sight person would be very rare and let his/her to fall for you. Like they say they whole universe would have conspired for you to get what you wished and that is something very rare you see in real life.

I have one question from where does this virus of girl hating a boy or boy hating a girl started, i would say this virus that girls say boys are mean and selfish and on other hand boys say that girls are swine who are fallen apart after being in love. so one girl or boy who are failed in love would always think that all other males or females are same. But i think the answer lie in the choice they made in their life. A good girl falling for a wrong guy and a good guy falling for a wrong girl. In the end we know that the one who got cheated would carry a life long grudge for falling that person and they paint every other guy or girl with the same brush. If all the fingers are same then why would we call them with difference names. So, yes it hard to move one but it doesn't mean life stop there. It would move on and you have to move on with it. why do they fall in love at first place and they fall apart. I think that's why people say love is blind because you never see the incoming or i would say delusion. May be you know it still the believe that he/she would not do this with you or you would change it. However in real life this all logic's get fail because we don't live in fantasy world, real world is different, bitter and it will break your never if you fall on the other side of the line.

I have seen people crying, cursing and losing hope because of one wrong person in there life. It's hard to resist the tempt of falling in love but when you don't succeed it would never be easy to come back to square one. Life would never be the same and it would never be. i have seen people moving into there shell, they keep less contact with the outside world. They somehow try to behave as if they are new born baby and need new space in this world and doesn't know anyone. However i believe what is over is over. we should never linger around our past. Might be when we say love at first sight, may be for you it may be the second love or third love who knows!

Hope is what we live with and love is what we spread in this world. It may be that god would have other plans for you. we love to get love, same way we should spread the love to others. Not for us but for others.

Even the rich are hungry for love, for being cared for, for being wanted, for having someone to call their own.
Mother Teresa