It looks funny at times when you are trying to figure out something even you have no idea about it and still you put up all your efforts and energy to come to a conclusion to satisfy your inner urge of knowing the unknown or rather settling it even on the mere hypothesis of something is just a imaginary creation of your own mind to satisfy this urge. I know it is little complex to understand but if life was so simple to figure it out, the authors of so many books wouldn't have made millions just by playing with words to describe life.
When you are ready, you don't get chance and when you are not, things keep pushing you to go for it. I don't know why this happen but it does happen a lot of time with lot of people. I always try to find out reasoning behind everything because i believe in Newton's law which says "Every action would have equal and opposite reaction". so it out be this way "Every action would have some reason to have some reaction for it". again reasoning with logic. However for certain things in life there are no reasons they just happen or take place with no reaction and disrupt the whole equation of Newton's Law. Even if i try to reason it out, I run out of reasoning and i just keep wondering what could be the possible solution or I must say,a way to get out of this maze. Possibly there are lot of reasons to this answer but they don't fit and question the legitimacy of the given result. so its again back to square one.
Life is simple but we keep making it complex and i would say it is simple if you start making compromises and happy the way it is going however it is not that simple because they say its easy saying then getting done.
What is life? A madness. What is life? An illusion, a shadow, a story. And the greatest good is little enough; for all life is a dream, and dreams themselves are only dreams.
Pedro Calderon de la Barca
Tuesday, February 14, 2012
Monday, January 30, 2012
Simple Thoughts
If you judge a person by there actions they are always worthless!
The hope of turn around is always painful.
The hope of turn around is always painful.
Sunday, January 29, 2012
Limit is what we define!
I always think what could be possible limitation we as a human has. Everyone has there own way of looking at it. Everyone has some limitation but to say that this is my limit, one would be actually underestimating them self. Until unless we don't push ourself from our comfort level, we would never come to know what is true limit we have. there is always a potential of going for that extra mile and break our own preconceived notion of our own limits. There is a old saying that the only limit we have is our soul and I truly believe that.
I sometime give up on things then i think again, did I give my best shot? did I explore all the possibilities? Let's try once again with a different approach. I'm saying that it would change the result but we have to be assertive to come to a conclusion that okay this is it, nothing much is left in this and I'm completely exhausted and run out of all the possible options. I always try to keep matters as simple as it could be never the less sometime we end up in a situation where you don't have choice but you are forced to make one. Even in that case i believe there is a hope of tweaking it to the maximum extend we can. Never Give up your passion, love, job under difficult situations if you hold on, there are only two possibilities to that either you get that or you reach to a state where you are gratified for at least you gave a shot, in what you believed in.
Never think about the outcome just do it with a faith, confidence, determination and put your soul behind. If you value it, the nature would deliver it to you. It the source with in you and the nature. you may not recognizing it because we never try to hear the truth and we live in fantasy world where we don't want to hear the truth but if your soul is pure for the thing and the nature is able to hear that it would give what you deserve however working Half heartedly then saying it that you didn't get it would never be the excuse you would looking to hear from yourself. Always go for what you believe in and never give up till you succeed.
"Our greatest glory is not in never failing, but in rising up every time we fail". Ralph Waldo Emerson
I sometime give up on things then i think again, did I give my best shot? did I explore all the possibilities? Let's try once again with a different approach. I'm saying that it would change the result but we have to be assertive to come to a conclusion that okay this is it, nothing much is left in this and I'm completely exhausted and run out of all the possible options. I always try to keep matters as simple as it could be never the less sometime we end up in a situation where you don't have choice but you are forced to make one. Even in that case i believe there is a hope of tweaking it to the maximum extend we can. Never Give up your passion, love, job under difficult situations if you hold on, there are only two possibilities to that either you get that or you reach to a state where you are gratified for at least you gave a shot, in what you believed in.
Never think about the outcome just do it with a faith, confidence, determination and put your soul behind. If you value it, the nature would deliver it to you. It the source with in you and the nature. you may not recognizing it because we never try to hear the truth and we live in fantasy world where we don't want to hear the truth but if your soul is pure for the thing and the nature is able to hear that it would give what you deserve however working Half heartedly then saying it that you didn't get it would never be the excuse you would looking to hear from yourself. Always go for what you believe in and never give up till you succeed.
"Our greatest glory is not in never failing, but in rising up every time we fail". Ralph Waldo Emerson
Saturday, January 14, 2012
Invisible in visible word!!
Sometime I feel what exactly i'm doing in this world. When i sit and try to figure out and look at my past i really wonder after all the twist and turns i had, what and when could be the possible break even i would have in life. however the break even when i say when would be at a point where i can say this is what i want or if not that this the most optimum life i could have. As we know human wants are unlimited and to satisfy one self you keep carving for something or the other thing. At some point i feel why are we like this. why cann't we little reduce our wants and look of tranquility in life.
Sometime we feel we are at a cross road where we have to make choice, choice between what you want, what you need and what you get. What we want will never get, what we need we never care and what we get, we are not satisfied. same goes with human relationships, we care for those who would never care for us and we don't care those who would care for us. So, it is always this choices that we make actually impact our way of living.we should sit back and understand what could be the right thing, either to be satisfy with what you have or run for something that you would never get. We live in a materialistic world where we care for things more than human beings. we should care people and not any object because object doesn't provide support when you are down. People matter the most would.
We are not sure where we want to go and when things never happen as per your wish you get frustrated and have you ever observed when one things goes wrong, it would be series of things that would go wrong at the same time and it would get accumulated with in you and then you lost hope and connectivity from this world. you are there but you are not there as well. you feel like running away and be disconnected to understand what actually is going on and what could happen next and what could have happened if you could have done something else. This questions keep poping up in your mind and you if think it is all the choice you have made irrespective of whether they were right or wrong. I keep asking myself what should one do or possible can do the undo or mitigate about what happen because of your action. That is a time you actually understand what all factors where there which play what role because of that this thing actually happened and then you realize the choice you have made is a result of that what you get in the end. So, why at first place we made that choices and why know we are feeling so disconnected from the world. I would feel sometime to be invisible or take a pause from life and understand the world in which i'm living and when i come back i would realize that something is wrong which i need to undo and then i set a goal which i believe would be right choice with out considering the uncertainties this world have to offer, yet i will make a decision and move one. It is a vicious cycle which keep pulling you again and again when you the reality and ultimately you would become invisible or more get into you than to the world. but you would forget one thing people would never bother what you do because they would never try to understand, you expect some people to understand you but they would never listen to you and those who are ready to listen to you, you would never say. This also leads to creation of speculation and grapevine. That is the reason i say we care for things than human being and choice we make are the one's which give end result. In order to get the desired result first step would be to make right choices in first place. Be the giver and the not expect-or. Because being invisible would only gonna hurt you and not to others. The only one who would care for yourself would be you yourself.
“It is the big choices we make that set our direction. It is the smallest choices we make that get us to the destination.”
Sometime we feel we are at a cross road where we have to make choice, choice between what you want, what you need and what you get. What we want will never get, what we need we never care and what we get, we are not satisfied. same goes with human relationships, we care for those who would never care for us and we don't care those who would care for us. So, it is always this choices that we make actually impact our way of living.we should sit back and understand what could be the right thing, either to be satisfy with what you have or run for something that you would never get. We live in a materialistic world where we care for things more than human beings. we should care people and not any object because object doesn't provide support when you are down. People matter the most would.
We are not sure where we want to go and when things never happen as per your wish you get frustrated and have you ever observed when one things goes wrong, it would be series of things that would go wrong at the same time and it would get accumulated with in you and then you lost hope and connectivity from this world. you are there but you are not there as well. you feel like running away and be disconnected to understand what actually is going on and what could happen next and what could have happened if you could have done something else. This questions keep poping up in your mind and you if think it is all the choice you have made irrespective of whether they were right or wrong. I keep asking myself what should one do or possible can do the undo or mitigate about what happen because of your action. That is a time you actually understand what all factors where there which play what role because of that this thing actually happened and then you realize the choice you have made is a result of that what you get in the end. So, why at first place we made that choices and why know we are feeling so disconnected from the world. I would feel sometime to be invisible or take a pause from life and understand the world in which i'm living and when i come back i would realize that something is wrong which i need to undo and then i set a goal which i believe would be right choice with out considering the uncertainties this world have to offer, yet i will make a decision and move one. It is a vicious cycle which keep pulling you again and again when you the reality and ultimately you would become invisible or more get into you than to the world. but you would forget one thing people would never bother what you do because they would never try to understand, you expect some people to understand you but they would never listen to you and those who are ready to listen to you, you would never say. This also leads to creation of speculation and grapevine. That is the reason i say we care for things than human being and choice we make are the one's which give end result. In order to get the desired result first step would be to make right choices in first place. Be the giver and the not expect-or. Because being invisible would only gonna hurt you and not to others. The only one who would care for yourself would be you yourself.
“It is the big choices we make that set our direction. It is the smallest choices we make that get us to the destination.”
Friday, January 6, 2012
Attitude, Arrogance or nature!!
Attitude, it has lot to do with an individual and it do have lot of impact on others too. I always try to understand difference between a good attitude or a bad attitude. Most of things are perception based and how an individual treat you. I have seen people they keep saying i'm like this only. when you post a question "why" they say the same answer. I don't buy that. It has got to do something with what has happened in your life, in the past and that made you to think that way. Some time we try to avoid things because in past we had some bad experience and that changed our attitude. If it is by birth you are like that then it would have got notice very easily and that would have know to everyone. I have seen people very careless about keeping there wardrobe maintained and keeping them self untidy, i must say and they thing sometime it is very cool. people wearing same shirt over and over again as if that's the only shirt they have. Lot of people say they are lazy to reply you on text or attend your call. Some people live in this world but there mind is somewhere else.
It may be called as an attitude they way you dressed up, you talk, you carry your self and your behavior with others. If they find it right they would say it is good attitude but the moment they feel that you are not nice to them they say it you have attitude problem. Sometime your attitude may be right but it would look arrogance to others. Reason being is the expectation we have from that person and the preset notion we create in our mind that this is how he is suppose to react to me. When i say this is how he is suppose to react to me i mean it and if he doesn't that you say you are being arrogant. For you it is your nature as you say I'm like this only but for the person who gets the treatment would say you have attitude problem or you being arrogant. I'm just trying to relate this three things attitude which you claim, nature that you say by birth you are like this only and arrogance when someone else doesn't find it fit.
I will take one thing at a time. it is your nature, if it is by birth then everyone would know it. So, if it is your nature then it would never hurt people around you then why does people who know you well tell you that your attitude has changed, from your point you would never feel that it has got changed but people who are around you would definitely can catch that. Suppose you use to be super active person and always ready to take on things in life as they come and suddenly something happen which you never thought would happen with you that would change your attitude. you may find it apt but people would catch that and would tell you that you have changed. I can quote another from different point of you. suppose some people say they are lazy at attending calls or reverting back on text. Do this same people would do the same thing if they have someone important in life. I think 99% they would never. In fact they would wait to hear from that person. So, my observation says that it has got to do more with your approach to your life. Having positive attitude and keeping others happy to an extent which you feel feasible create not only right attitude, but it would avoid other problems as well. Most people who find you that you are like this would never think of contacting you because you create your importance by touching others life but not by say that you are lazy at this.
Attitude can be change if you have right meaning and approach in life. If someone say that I'm like this. I would never buy that for simple reason because we are born on a plain slate, it would be us who would give meaning to our life and it would never be our attitude. We built our attitude, our attitude never built us. So, no matter you had one rough day it would never change the person in you. Sometime our wrong attitude or way of approaching life would have cascading impact of our life. We may never accept that or see that but it does. I believe people around are the biggest assets and if they say that you have changed, at least think for a minute and try to recollect how much truth in that and if you find even 0.01% then something has really happened and that 0.01% would turn into 100% you never know. So, if the change is good you then it would bring lot of positive vibes and energy. Believe me you will feel that once you are in right direction. Our attitude is what we have which bring close to people and it is our biggest enemy in losing them.
“The longer I live, the more I realize the impact of attitude on life. Attitude, to me, is more important than facts. It is more important than the past, the education, the money, than circumstances, than failure, than successes, than what other people think or say or do. It is more important than appearance, giftedness or skill. It will make or break a company... a church... a home. The remarkable thing is we have a choice everyday regarding the attitude we will embrace for that day. We cannot change our past... we cannot change the fact that people will act in a certain way. We cannot change the inevitable. The only thing we can do is play on the one string we have, and that is our attitude. I am convinced that life is 10% what happens to me and 90% of how I react to it. And so it is with you... we are in charge of our Attitudes.”
~Charles R. Swindoll
It may be called as an attitude they way you dressed up, you talk, you carry your self and your behavior with others. If they find it right they would say it is good attitude but the moment they feel that you are not nice to them they say it you have attitude problem. Sometime your attitude may be right but it would look arrogance to others. Reason being is the expectation we have from that person and the preset notion we create in our mind that this is how he is suppose to react to me. When i say this is how he is suppose to react to me i mean it and if he doesn't that you say you are being arrogant. For you it is your nature as you say I'm like this only but for the person who gets the treatment would say you have attitude problem or you being arrogant. I'm just trying to relate this three things attitude which you claim, nature that you say by birth you are like this only and arrogance when someone else doesn't find it fit.
I will take one thing at a time. it is your nature, if it is by birth then everyone would know it. So, if it is your nature then it would never hurt people around you then why does people who know you well tell you that your attitude has changed, from your point you would never feel that it has got changed but people who are around you would definitely can catch that. Suppose you use to be super active person and always ready to take on things in life as they come and suddenly something happen which you never thought would happen with you that would change your attitude. you may find it apt but people would catch that and would tell you that you have changed. I can quote another from different point of you. suppose some people say they are lazy at attending calls or reverting back on text. Do this same people would do the same thing if they have someone important in life. I think 99% they would never. In fact they would wait to hear from that person. So, my observation says that it has got to do more with your approach to your life. Having positive attitude and keeping others happy to an extent which you feel feasible create not only right attitude, but it would avoid other problems as well. Most people who find you that you are like this would never think of contacting you because you create your importance by touching others life but not by say that you are lazy at this.
Attitude can be change if you have right meaning and approach in life. If someone say that I'm like this. I would never buy that for simple reason because we are born on a plain slate, it would be us who would give meaning to our life and it would never be our attitude. We built our attitude, our attitude never built us. So, no matter you had one rough day it would never change the person in you. Sometime our wrong attitude or way of approaching life would have cascading impact of our life. We may never accept that or see that but it does. I believe people around are the biggest assets and if they say that you have changed, at least think for a minute and try to recollect how much truth in that and if you find even 0.01% then something has really happened and that 0.01% would turn into 100% you never know. So, if the change is good you then it would bring lot of positive vibes and energy. Believe me you will feel that once you are in right direction. Our attitude is what we have which bring close to people and it is our biggest enemy in losing them.
“The longer I live, the more I realize the impact of attitude on life. Attitude, to me, is more important than facts. It is more important than the past, the education, the money, than circumstances, than failure, than successes, than what other people think or say or do. It is more important than appearance, giftedness or skill. It will make or break a company... a church... a home. The remarkable thing is we have a choice everyday regarding the attitude we will embrace for that day. We cannot change our past... we cannot change the fact that people will act in a certain way. We cannot change the inevitable. The only thing we can do is play on the one string we have, and that is our attitude. I am convinced that life is 10% what happens to me and 90% of how I react to it. And so it is with you... we are in charge of our Attitudes.”
~Charles R. Swindoll
Thursday, January 5, 2012
All we want is being loved!!
We humans are so passion driven and we love if we get pampered by someone. I don't understand the logic behind love and your entire life right from your childhood you have been loved by your grandmother, grandfather, mother, father, sister, brother, cousins, friends, uncles, aunties and many other people. Still, we are not satisfied and we need that one person to say finally i'm in love. one question i keep asking many people how does it feel in being love and they say its amazing. You should also fall in love at least once. I know it would be good thing or great thing but what about the one's who are fallen apart. I'm not going to much what love is and how does it happen.
To be honest i have never understand the concept of love at first sight. I believe its very filmy and still i wonder, where and what is that instinct that tells you this is the one. It is like some adjustment bureau guy is sitting next to you to make it happen for you or some angels from heaven came down on earth to whispered in your ears that boss this is your soul mate. From where does that feeling come to you and tells you that your in love with his/her is still a mystery for me. But i know one thing the probability of getting that love at first sight person would be very rare and let his/her to fall for you. Like they say they whole universe would have conspired for you to get what you wished and that is something very rare you see in real life.
I have one question from where does this virus of girl hating a boy or boy hating a girl started, i would say this virus that girls say boys are mean and selfish and on other hand boys say that girls are swine who are fallen apart after being in love. so one girl or boy who are failed in love would always think that all other males or females are same. But i think the answer lie in the choice they made in their life. A good girl falling for a wrong guy and a good guy falling for a wrong girl. In the end we know that the one who got cheated would carry a life long grudge for falling that person and they paint every other guy or girl with the same brush. If all the fingers are same then why would we call them with difference names. So, yes it hard to move one but it doesn't mean life stop there. It would move on and you have to move on with it. why do they fall in love at first place and they fall apart. I think that's why people say love is blind because you never see the incoming or i would say delusion. May be you know it still the believe that he/she would not do this with you or you would change it. However in real life this all logic's get fail because we don't live in fantasy world, real world is different, bitter and it will break your never if you fall on the other side of the line.
I have seen people crying, cursing and losing hope because of one wrong person in there life. It's hard to resist the tempt of falling in love but when you don't succeed it would never be easy to come back to square one. Life would never be the same and it would never be. i have seen people moving into there shell, they keep less contact with the outside world. They somehow try to behave as if they are new born baby and need new space in this world and doesn't know anyone. However i believe what is over is over. we should never linger around our past. Might be when we say love at first sight, may be for you it may be the second love or third love who knows!
Hope is what we live with and love is what we spread in this world. It may be that god would have other plans for you. we love to get love, same way we should spread the love to others. Not for us but for others.
Even the rich are hungry for love, for being cared for, for being wanted, for having someone to call their own.
Mother Teresa
To be honest i have never understand the concept of love at first sight. I believe its very filmy and still i wonder, where and what is that instinct that tells you this is the one. It is like some adjustment bureau guy is sitting next to you to make it happen for you or some angels from heaven came down on earth to whispered in your ears that boss this is your soul mate. From where does that feeling come to you and tells you that your in love with his/her is still a mystery for me. But i know one thing the probability of getting that love at first sight person would be very rare and let his/her to fall for you. Like they say they whole universe would have conspired for you to get what you wished and that is something very rare you see in real life.
I have one question from where does this virus of girl hating a boy or boy hating a girl started, i would say this virus that girls say boys are mean and selfish and on other hand boys say that girls are swine who are fallen apart after being in love. so one girl or boy who are failed in love would always think that all other males or females are same. But i think the answer lie in the choice they made in their life. A good girl falling for a wrong guy and a good guy falling for a wrong girl. In the end we know that the one who got cheated would carry a life long grudge for falling that person and they paint every other guy or girl with the same brush. If all the fingers are same then why would we call them with difference names. So, yes it hard to move one but it doesn't mean life stop there. It would move on and you have to move on with it. why do they fall in love at first place and they fall apart. I think that's why people say love is blind because you never see the incoming or i would say delusion. May be you know it still the believe that he/she would not do this with you or you would change it. However in real life this all logic's get fail because we don't live in fantasy world, real world is different, bitter and it will break your never if you fall on the other side of the line.
I have seen people crying, cursing and losing hope because of one wrong person in there life. It's hard to resist the tempt of falling in love but when you don't succeed it would never be easy to come back to square one. Life would never be the same and it would never be. i have seen people moving into there shell, they keep less contact with the outside world. They somehow try to behave as if they are new born baby and need new space in this world and doesn't know anyone. However i believe what is over is over. we should never linger around our past. Might be when we say love at first sight, may be for you it may be the second love or third love who knows!
Hope is what we live with and love is what we spread in this world. It may be that god would have other plans for you. we love to get love, same way we should spread the love to others. Not for us but for others.
Even the rich are hungry for love, for being cared for, for being wanted, for having someone to call their own.
Mother Teresa
Tuesday, January 3, 2012
Delusion or illusion!!
I always wonder in what world we live in. Is it a delusion or an illusion?
When i say this i mean it because sometime we know the truth and yet we act as if we are unaware of the situation or we just live with a mere assumption that may be it is fabricated and what if it is true. Still we believe as if we know better than the rest of the world just to make sure we live in illusion rather than facing the reality. How much true others to you are more depend on how much you are ready to give leverage to them in your life.
I believe it has more to do with an individual than anyone else. If we can control our-self, our thoughts and master this art of controlling our life. We can make wonders not only to our-self but to others as well. However, its never been an easy thing to do and it would never gonna be. Today most of our thoughts are not generated by us but the others and we take them into our life everyday. We never think of that but that's the reality. Have you ever wonder why do like songs which bring emotions into it, be it happy or sad. Just be an observant and listen to a song you think, you like the most and then just observe that the lyrics of the song touches your soul. why does that happen that's my question in the first place. I believe somewhere you start relating it with you, some incident which you believe perfectly syncs with the situation your facing or faced and that's where you are buying the thought process of others and destroying yours. We human beings love to intimate things and it has become almost a habit we try to reflect it in our daily life. I remember when i use to relate certain songs with my life but one day i gave a thought that when i'm in normal mood and when i start listening to that song it will take me to a state where i don't wish too. SO, it works like this when we are down we try to come out from that with some weird things and i would say the thought was not yours but borrowed from somewhere else. Let me prove my point when your down, heart broken or left alone why do you suddenly start liking sad songs because you start relating that with you and the moment you do that, you already bought the thought of what you have seen on TV channels or in a movie. So, its a situation where you know that its not the right thing to do but to mitigate that pain you try things just to get back to normal life.
which actually never happen because somewhere in your memory the thing remain and in your heart the pain and know as you created a self destruction program for yourself. So, whenever you see a place or listen to a song you have related to you happiness or pain. You actually get into the mode where even you never thought off.
We can come out from this illusion if we stop being in delusion and face the reality of life and understand if its not meant for us then let it go. Until unless we don't create a life for us we would never gonna get the life we want. Most of the things in life are done or created because of our own thought process. So, stop buying others and start nurturing yours to create a meaningful life for yourself.
Chase your dream but not others.If we believe that we can do good with us and stop being driven by emotions and leave the things that make you sad. your not only helping yourself but to others. They say "garbage in and garbage out" which means if your thinking is wrong how could your output be!! Think about it.
When i say this i mean it because sometime we know the truth and yet we act as if we are unaware of the situation or we just live with a mere assumption that may be it is fabricated and what if it is true. Still we believe as if we know better than the rest of the world just to make sure we live in illusion rather than facing the reality. How much true others to you are more depend on how much you are ready to give leverage to them in your life.
I believe it has more to do with an individual than anyone else. If we can control our-self, our thoughts and master this art of controlling our life. We can make wonders not only to our-self but to others as well. However, its never been an easy thing to do and it would never gonna be. Today most of our thoughts are not generated by us but the others and we take them into our life everyday. We never think of that but that's the reality. Have you ever wonder why do like songs which bring emotions into it, be it happy or sad. Just be an observant and listen to a song you think, you like the most and then just observe that the lyrics of the song touches your soul. why does that happen that's my question in the first place. I believe somewhere you start relating it with you, some incident which you believe perfectly syncs with the situation your facing or faced and that's where you are buying the thought process of others and destroying yours. We human beings love to intimate things and it has become almost a habit we try to reflect it in our daily life. I remember when i use to relate certain songs with my life but one day i gave a thought that when i'm in normal mood and when i start listening to that song it will take me to a state where i don't wish too. SO, it works like this when we are down we try to come out from that with some weird things and i would say the thought was not yours but borrowed from somewhere else. Let me prove my point when your down, heart broken or left alone why do you suddenly start liking sad songs because you start relating that with you and the moment you do that, you already bought the thought of what you have seen on TV channels or in a movie. So, its a situation where you know that its not the right thing to do but to mitigate that pain you try things just to get back to normal life.
which actually never happen because somewhere in your memory the thing remain and in your heart the pain and know as you created a self destruction program for yourself. So, whenever you see a place or listen to a song you have related to you happiness or pain. You actually get into the mode where even you never thought off.
We can come out from this illusion if we stop being in delusion and face the reality of life and understand if its not meant for us then let it go. Until unless we don't create a life for us we would never gonna get the life we want. Most of the things in life are done or created because of our own thought process. So, stop buying others and start nurturing yours to create a meaningful life for yourself.
Chase your dream but not others.If we believe that we can do good with us and stop being driven by emotions and leave the things that make you sad. your not only helping yourself but to others. They say "garbage in and garbage out" which means if your thinking is wrong how could your output be!! Think about it.
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